Archive - In Other Words by A.J. Kay

How Would You Spend Your Last Thanksgiving?

If "safety" requires us to forfeit the most valuable parts of our lives, what exactly are we trying to save?

Apr 2 •

October 2023

Schrödinger's Gender

Why trans-identifying people claim you are denying their existence - and how they're not (totally) wrong

Oct 7, 2023 •

September 2023

Don't just say things. Do them.

Sep 15, 2023 •

August 2023

We Compete With Bodies, Not Identities

Sport is fundamentally incompatible with gender ideology

Aug 2, 2023 •

October 2022

"Amnesty" is not the Solution to Disastrous Policy Decisions

And "gloating" is not the motivation for calling them out

Oct 31, 2022 •

September 2021

Childhood, Interrupted

Children’s value — which was once predicated on their role as the literal future of humanity— has been perverted, now centering on their utility as…

Sep 8, 2021 •

Medium exiled me for being dangerous. I hope I live up to their expectations.

Welcome to ‘Use Your Words’ by me, AJ Kay. I started this Substack after all 85 articles on my successful Medium.com account were deleted for arguing…

Sep 8, 2021 •

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